What We Can All Learn From the Success of…
What We Can All Learn From the Success of Joe BurrowDecember 17 |
by Steve Gilbert “We must be willing to let go of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” — Joseph Campbell LSU quarterback Joe Burrow is having quite a senior season. His Tigers are undefeated and headed for the College Football Playoff and he appears to be the leading candidate to win the sport’s highest award, the Heisman Trophy. So, you would think he’s living his dream. But Burrow actually had a different dream. He wanted to play quarterback at Nebraska, his favorite team as a kid. Nebraska, though, didn’t recruit him. Didn’t want him. And that hurt. Burrow went to Ohio State where he sat on the bench for three seasons before finally deciding to transfer for his final season of eligibility. It was another chance for Nebraska, but once again, they were not interested. Burrow wound up at LSU where he is experiencing a season for the ages. It’s a good reminder that we don’t always know what is going to wind up being best for us. That job we were so crushed about getting? Maybe we find something that winds up being better. That person we tried to date who turned us down and broke our heart? Maybe we end up with someone that is a better match. Today, remember to be open to the possibility that what is breaking your heart right now will lead you to something better in the future so long as you find a way to keep going. ***** Joe Burrows was named the Heisman Trophy winner for the College Football season on 12/15/. Win Your Day! Steve Gilbert *If you are not on Steve Gilbert’s Win Your Day! email list, but would like to be added, please email him at winyourday@gmail.com. Make a difference today, Love Clint |
Ronald Reagan
“And let me offer lesson number one about America: All great change in America begins at the dinner table. So, tomorrow night in the kitchen I hope the talking begins.” Ronald Reagan |
The Coach as a Leader
Wooden’s Wisdom – Volume 1, Issue 4 7December 11 |
The Coach as a Leader – Part 3 (Consistency) The first block on the second level of the Pyramid of Success, Self Control, is an essential quality for any leader and team if they are going to perform near to their capability. It is necessary that the leader demonstrates self-control if he expects his team to have self-control. Coach Wooden worked at maintaining his self-control on the bench during games. He explained why he thought that was important in the following manner: I felt that my players would be more under control if I seemed to be under control. If I get out-of-control how can I tell them that if they lose their self-control they’re going to be outplayed, when I apparently am losing my self-control on the bench. I think your actions can determine to a great deal the actions of those under your supervision. People sometimes lose their self-control when they are surprised. Prior to each season Coach sent his players a letter in which he clearly stated his expectations and how they as team members and individuals could expect to be treated. This process helped eliminate surprises and created an environment where self-control by all was maximized. The following is an excerpt from the letter Coach sent to his 1972-73 team in August of 1972. You must discipline yourself to do what is expected of you for the welfare of the team. The coach has many decisions to make and you will not agree with all of them, but you must respect and accept them. Without supervision and leadership and a disciplined effort by all, much of our united strength will be dissipated pulling against ourselves. Let us not be victimized by a breakdown from within. You may feel, at times, that I have double standards as I certainly will not treat you all the same. However, I will attempt to give each player the treatment that he earns and deserves according to my judgment and in keeping with what I consider to be in the best interest of the team. I know I will not be right in all of my decisions, but I will attempt to be both right and fair. As a leader, Coach believed that maintaining self-control and thus emotional balance was critical in maximizing performance, especially when dealing with adversity. He summarized it this way: I believe that for every artificial peak you create, you also create valleys. When you get too high for anything, emotion takes over and consistency of performance is lost and you will be unduly affected when adversity comes. I emphasized constant improvement and steady performance. It is self-control in thought and action that creates consistency. Finally, as Coach liked to remind us: The more concerned we become over the things we can’t control, the less we will do with the things we can control. Yours in coaching, Craig Impelman |